I often wonder about the concept of growing up. Is it the presence of stability and security or maybe the ability of making wise decisions? Maturity is so abstract that the mere definition of it varies from one person to another. More often than not, people would say that I need to grow up. I have a job, I can buy anything I want and I can go wherever I want but still it's not enough for one to say that I am grown up? Does growing up mean that you have to be financially secured, emotionally stable and physically fit? Then I personally think that what they are referring to is "growing old". You can't possibly have that all before undergoing midlife crisis. Okay, now I am having anger without enthusiasm --- depression. Talking about taking the fun out of life.